Confidence Leads to Comfort

Alice's confidence in herself has made her ever so comfortable with the fetish.

"The older I got, and when I got to know you, Patrick, the more comfortable I got with the idea of a fetish in general."

- Alice, Wu's Feet Links Interview (Jan. 2016) 

There I am, nose to toes with Alice's size 11 feet and her well worn flats - the ones she wears to work daily. She doesn't care. Nope. She actually thinks it's rather adorable. And knowing her, she probably wore them a little longer just to moisten them up inside. Oh Alice...

Alice is like many of the females I've become friends with over the years. She doesn't find my fetish to be anything out of the ordinary. She fully believes your kinks should be something you embrace. She even said as much in her January 2016 Interview on the Wu's Feet Links Interviews Blog.

"There is nothing to be ashamed of. We like what we like and everyone likes something different. Take pride in what sexually arouses you! Have fun with it!" she encouraged.

I decided to start this blog off with Alice because of the journey she took to get to where she is now modeling. It would have been so easy for Alice to classify me as a "creepy old guy with a foot fetish," and never entertain the idea. Add in the 18 years separating us and her preconceived notion about the fetish prior to shooting for me and it makes for a great example of the purpose of this blog.

"When I was first introduced to foot fetishism, I thought it was a joke, honestly. I was a little judgmental and thought it was weird," she admitted.

So what made her change her mind? What lead her to eagerly want stick her sweaty feet in my face for the photo above? It was my confidence as it pertains to my fetish and ability to make her feel comfortable because of it. That led to her own confidence to grow and her own feelings to change. Now she realizes the beauty and power her large size 11 feet have over many of us out there.

"The older I got, and when I got to know you, Patrick, the more comfortable I got with the idea of a fetish in general," Alice said.

Alice's ever growing confidence has led to her becoming one of the site's most photographed models within just two short years. It just continues to grow and now she's even asking her friends to shoot.

There was once a time, however, where I didn't exude that confidence in my fetish. It's been an awful long time, but my love for women's feet was something I used to be embarrassed about. You'd have to go back to when I was 18 and dating Abby to find that version of me.

All these years later, I'm so lucky to have Abby still modeling her adorable little feet.

Back in 1997 a skinnier me was getting introduced to perhaps still the softest feet I've ever touched. Abby read me like a book. Even back in high school, before we dated, she knew I liked feet. Once we started dating, she went and made a monster out of me. First, however, she had to open the cage door and make me step out. And it didn't take her long to unlock that door and begin that process either.

The very first day we hung out together, she was sticking McDonald's French fries between her toes and encouraging me to eat them. A much more timid me, was hesitant. I had never experienced such a blatant request and yet, there she was, beckoning me with a confidence of her own that started to make me feel more comfortable. Each and every experience afterward would only make my own confidence grow. Still, however, that was only between the two of us.

A few months later, Abby told me that she told a few of her friends that I had a foot fetish. I honestly remember that conversation in her living room and feeling embarrassed. "How would they look at me now?" I thought.

Abby assured me that her friends thought it was awesome. I was still feeling a little unsure of her decision, but I'd eventually see that she was right. I even got to take foot fetish photos of one of those friends, an Asian girl living next door. When I got them both together in a set, I didn't think it could get any better. The monster was officially born.

In her 2006 Wu's Feet Links Fan Interview, Abby shed some light on her feelings all those years ago. She said, "My ex-boyfriend, Patrick, is who got me into the foot fetish world. That was his thing and I supported it. I told him it was a great thing and not to be shy about it."

Fast forward to present day and I guess you can say the shoe is now on the other foot, pun intended. It's my own confidence that has allowed me to have countless female friends shoot for Soles of Silk. I rarely have to convince anyone. I just ask. The only things that generally holds my female friends back from shooting are their partners not being as comfortable with the idea, or things such as jobs. These girls know what I do and have become comfortable enough with me to want to kick their shoes off and show all of you their feet. And as you can see, even after we broke up back in 1999, Abby still actively models her captivating feet for me. I'm glad we've maintained our friendship and that she still loves being in front of my camera making her feet wrinkle up like no other.

If Mindee could shoot every day, I honestly think she would. She loves it.

I'd be lying if I told you that some models didn't need a little convincing though. Even Mindee, the site's most photographed model, wasn't sure about it back in 2004. Once she became comfortable, however, her confidence also began to grow. Now Mindee has over 4,000 photos and counting with no signs of stopping. Another thing she's quick to take advantage of is my foot massage skills. If I haven't grabbed her feet at some point during our get togethers, she's sure to push the issue. Down time is foot rub time! We're actually meeting today for lunch and a foot rub. This is such a far cry from how things were 13 years ago. In her case, I might have created the monster!

"In the beginning I was terrified. The simple fact is you're my friend and you already made me feel comfortable. The truth now is, I absolutely enjoy it!" Mindee said in her 10 for 10 interview conducted during Soles of Silk 10 Year Anniversary celebration.

As you can see, both Mindee and Alice have had a similar story. They both came from a place of uncertainty and progressed to a place where they can't wait to find some more time in front of the camera, or with their feet being pampered by yours truly. The same holds true for some of the models I wasn't friends with prior, say someone who was a friend of a friend, for example. 

When those first timers show up to a shoot and and see how laid back I am about the site and fetish, they begin to grow more comfortable. I sometimes even crack jokes about the fetish, or even on myself for having it. I don't care. If it helps relieve any tension that girl may have, I'll do it.

"I just might be the only male photographer you'll have that means your toes when I ask you to, 'spread'em," I will often say to a newbie.

I don't think that has never not elicited a laugh. Then I'll usually tell her that I should look into what the other guys are shooting now that I think about it. Again, that's usually followed by more laughs. Those little things go a long way.

With all this said, I won't sit here and tell you that there isn't the rare exception where a woman is just repulsed by the idea of someone into feet. Not everyone has the same opinions, or are as open minded as likes Abby, Alice, or Mindee. These types of people won't change their mind, no matter what you say. There is no need to try to convince them. Surely, there are some models who you might be able to pay enough money to get in front of your camera, but I'm talking more about those who do it because they have fun with it. The ones you have to overpay won't be fun to shoot and I have no interest in them. To each their own, though.

When it comes to personal friendships, if there is ever a person who ceases being your friend, or treats you with disrespect for simply having a foot fetish, they're not worth your time. Move on and find someone less petty. Life is too short to surround yourself with people like that. No real need to elaborate on this any further. Let them screw off.

It is not impossible have a healthy friendship with someone who will never understand your fetish or kinks pertaining to feet though. I currently work with such a girl who turned me down ASAP when I asked her to shoot a couple of years ago. She hates feet and doesn't get the fetish at all. Even when Kaycee and Reagan tried to talk her into shooting, she flat out refused. Kaycee and Reagan have a blast shooting and thought they might be able to talk her into it - girl to girl. But alas, nope. I did appreciate their effort though.

Regardless of her feelings, I can respect that. It doesn't appeal to her and has never affected our friendship. If over time she should begin to have a change of heart, then maybe we'll shoot. For now though, she's just a friend who doesn't get barefoot in front of my camera. You can have those friends.

The one thing that I've come to find troublesome is when you're in a romantic relationship and your partner is the one who can't accept your fetish. For me, I cannot be with someone who doesn't accept my fetish. If that sounds selfish, I make no apologies. My fetish is a part of me and I know there are enough people out there who would appreciate it. And yes, I've been in a relationship with someone who hated the attention I'd tried to give her feet. That person is Paige Noelle, who'd later model for the site.

I was shocked when Paige offered to model for me after we broke up.

Paige and I only dated for several months, but the entire time we did, she protested my desire to give her a foot rub while we'd watch TV, or relax after a long day at work. Knowing that, I knew other kinks concerning her feet were out of the question. We lasted only a few months and broke things off amicably.

With that knowledge, you can imagine my confusion when Paige offered to shoot for Soles of Silk a couple of years after we broke up. She wanted me to take some standard pictures of her and offered to do mine in trade. She admitted that she still didn't get the whole fetish, and didn't find her feet to be as cute as I claimed. She still thought it could be fun nonetheless and I accepted her offer. As strange as it sounds, loved being back around her feet. It was like they were that forbidden fruit. That shoot was easily the most time I spent before her tender feet, before, during, or after our break up. 

When it comes to other people's relationships, I have been contacted by a number of guys over the years who are in a similar situation as I was with Paige. It's hard for me to give them advice because in some of cases, they've hidden their fetish their entire lives. Ever since Abby, all my subsequent girlfriends have known the deal with my fetish. Minus Paige, all of them adored the attention I gave their feet. They'd throw their feet in my lap for a foot rub without my asking, then eventually have journey elsewhere - both north and south. Whether it was for teasing or pleasing purposes, those girls loved the power their feet had over me and made sure to take advantage of it. That's just what loving couples do.

What really upsets me is when I hear some of these guys tell me that not even their own wife or girlfriend know about their fetish, even though they've been together for a long time. I can't even fathom what that would be like. But it gets worse...  Some even think telling their spouse could potentially tear apart their relationship. That's just not good. How do you even respond to that?

I'm no relationship councilor, so the only thing I can tell people in this situation is basically what I've said above. Accept your fetish. Let go of the fear of that others will think less of you. If you display your confidence, and appreciate a woman above her ankles as well (very important), then more times than not, she'll come around to it.

Ultimately, only you know yourself and those who surround you. No matter what you do in life, never feel bad about having your fetish. Accept it, but don't allow it to consume you. It can be a fun part of who you are, if you allow it to be. You might start off like I did and be weary of the path before you, but just know that some of those twists and turns can lead you to some memorable times.

Foot Fetish Memories from My Teens

I'm very comfortable with my fetish now, but I wasn't always.

As I mentioned earlier in the week on the Wu's Feet Links Forum, in a thread titled, "This Month's Wu's Feet Links Column," I was running way behind on this month's blog entry. Part of me understands why some of the other girls who had written these in the past had ceased doing them after a few months or a few years. A deadline sure an sneak up on you! And if you're like me, you feel bad if you don't deliver as promised.

More than ever, these last couple of months have been quite demanding on me. Not only do I run Soles of Silk and help with Wu's Feet Links when it comes to this blog, the interviews, and feature model calendar, but I also work a full time job and do a bunch of advertising and product design for it outside of the workplace. That advertising and product design is what has been kicking my ass lately. Just a bunch of time sensitive items being given to me back to back without much of break in between.

Not wanting to skip a month on the blog, however, I decided to come up with something I can do based on my experiences. I have totally enjoyed interviewing people for topics in some of the past columns, but this entry is already late and I can't depend on people to be able to answer questions ASAP. Plus, it wouldn't be fair of me to expect them to be prompt when I've been tied up myself.

With that in mind, I began thinking of some topics that I've been asked about over the years. That's when I came up with the idea to write about some of my early foot fetish experiences growing up. I like to ask about these when I interview people because it gives us a glimpse into what they faced early on. And while I've talked a lot about my Soles of Silk and former The 10 Little Piggies experiences, I feel like I haven't really mentioned what it was like before all that came to be.

I wasn't always comfortable with my foot fetish when I was younger. I did, however, find ways to get my foot fix in the years leading up to meeting Abby, my former girlfriend and probably the single biggest reason I became so comfortable with this fetish. You'll see her mentioned a couple of times in this article too.

In addition to Abby's experience, I've listed five other memorable experiences that involved female feet. These aren't every experience I ever had, just some that stuck out and that I've not forgotten. I didn't even mention the first girl whose feet I got to play with on a regular basis - my first real girlfriend, Amanda. While she allowed me access to her feet, no particular instance stands out. Just know that she fell somewhere between the first two experiences below.

I hope this is fun little read for people. Again, I apologize for it being late and hope I'm able to have a little more free time in the coming weeks.

Bowling - Rainbow Toes

When I was younger, one of my best friends moved away. To try to get me to meet some new kids and make new friends, my mother signed me up for a duckpin bowling league. If you're unfamiliar with duckpins, just know it's a three ball variation of the standard game with much smaller balls and pins. For more information, check it out on Google as it's not exactly important to the story.

Anyhow, over the years I became pretty good at the sport and joined a travel league. At the end of every year we would do a challenge match against teams from Connecticut, Rhode Island, Virginia, and Washington, D.C. It was at one of these matches I had a fun little experience with a girl who had her toenails painted all different colors.

Both of our teams had been eliminated from the up the ladder finals. She was from Connecticut, I believe. We were sitting out front of the bowling alley, which featured a large concrete porch and staircase. Mostly everyone was still inside watching the matches take place. Meanwhile I was just outside making small talk with this girl.

I made a comment about her toenails being flashy and she asked me if I liked them. I said I did. Now, I wasn't open about my foot fetish at this point, so I kept it at that. But when she said her feet hurt, I offered a massage to see what response I'd get. Believe me, my heart began racing once I asked. I didn't know what the response would be.

Fast forward a few minutes and there I was, in my early high school years, giving this girl a foot massage out in front of the bowling alley and she obviously took me up on the offer. She was very chill and thought it was so relaxing. I don't even remember how long the massage was, but I know it wasn't short either. I do recall totally being a dork at one point and doing the "This little piggy" thing to her when I accidentally tickled her.

Since I was still very shy about my fetish during this portion of my life, I felt like I had hit the lottery with this experience. In the grand scheme of things, it's far from the most interesting or wildest experience I've had with female feet, but it was still memorable for the time.

Bowling - Munchkins

Sticking with the bowling and the challenge match theme, a few years later, between my junior and senior year of high school, our bowling league once again was up in Connecticut for the tournament. This time, however, my experience was much more "sweet" and took place with a girl in my own league that I admired at the time. One who was also the daughter of my mother's supervisor.

Our bowling league would always rent out hotel rooms for our tournament for several days when we'd visit Connecticut. Well, after our bus arrived and we all checked in, a bunch of us were out mingling with each other to see where our rooms were. I ended up making my way to Lisa's room at some point.

Lisa, or someone in her room, had bought Dunkin Donuts Munchkins at one of the rest stops on our drive north. While I was in Lisa's room, she and one of the other girls were giving me a hard time. I told her I'd throw a Munchkin at her if she didn't stop. Well, she reached over and threw one at me instead, but missed. I jumped up and grabbed the box and pulled another one out. I sat on top of her and told her to say she was sorry, or I was going to smash one on her. She began kicking at me to get me off, refusing to apologize. I took that donut and did what I promised.

I grabbed Lisa's foot as she tried to kick me and smashed the donut right up into her pudgy toes. I was lucky enough to have grabbed one with pudding, or some kind of vanilla cream inside of it too. Lisa squealed and I just kept smearing it into her toes.

Lisa was finally able to wiggle free and she ran over to the other side of the bed by the window. She called for a truce. I said okay and backed down. A few seconds later, however, Lisa lunged for the Munchkins to try and get me. I won out again and grabbed the box. We wrestled around and I smashed another donut in her toes and she just giggled beyond belief.

It was around this time one of the coaches came by and I didn't think sitting on top of Lisa would look good, so I got up. We were both breathing a little heavy and smirking when the coach gave us this weird look. Lisa hid her feet and the coach never saw the pudding and cinnamon all over the carpet between the beds.

As for the other girl who was in the room, she stayed out of it and laughed her ass off when Lisa got her toes all gooey.

A funny side note to this experience, when my 12th grade English teacher asked us to write the standard "What I did over the summer" paper when we first went back to school, I wrote about this whole experience. I also wrote about it in much more detail. I only wish I still had it saved.

Photography Class

While I was in high school, mostly during my senior year, I practically asked any and every girl I thought looked cute to model for some photos for my photography class. One of the art teachers used to ask me if there were any girls I didn't shoot.

Whenever I would get one of the girls at school to pose I'd always find a reason to need them to take their shoes off for the photos. Sometimes I'd even ask them to do poses with socks and/or shoes being pulled off. Every so often the girls thought it was weird, but I never remember being told no.

While this didn't net me many hands on experiences since I was in class at the time, I'd sometimes get a cheap feel, or playful foot rub in. It's also how I first got to feel Abby's super soft feet.

Abby always knew I had a foot fetish. I think she could see it in my work. When I finally asked her to pose for some photos, she wore these strappy shoes - per my request, of course. See, she'd wear these shoes in class and since I sat two rows behind her, her feet often distracted the ever living hell out of me. So yeah, I asked her to wear them.

When I was shooting photos of Abby in one of the small private rooms, I got down to her feet for the last few shots I needed. That's when Abby told me her feet are so smooth that she had slipped going down the steps a time or two. She then kicked off her shoes and told me to feel her soles. She wanted to prove how smooth her soles were, but also admitted years later to wanting me to touch her feet at the time. I was caught off guard, but I sure as hell wasn't turning down the offer. And boy was she ever right! It sure wouldn't be the last time she'd tease me, and do it knowingly either.

Senior Week

After graduation I made my way to Ocean City, Md. with my friends. I thought I had it made. I was staying in a room with two female classmates - one of which I thought was gorgeous. Sadly, the weather sucked though and the girls were content to stay in. I, on the other hand, went out and hung out at a friend's place and got pretty trashed. I actually ended up staying with them the entire time in a room I didn't even pay for.

On one of the nights I was walking around with my buddy Chris and his 21 year old brother. With Chris' brother being 21, it meant we were able to get some alcohol. Well, after returning from the liquor store, the three of us met some girls from Pennsylvania. We walked around on the boardwalk for a while with them, eventually making it back to their hotel.

While Chris, his brother, and I were hanging out with these girls, the one complained about her feet hurting from walking the boardwalk. Again, I came to the rescue and said I'd give them a massage. At first she said she wasn't sure as no one really rubbed her feet before. I assured her she'd like it. She said what the hell and stuck her feet in my lap.

After a while she said, "You weren't kidding about this feeling good. Now only if someone was rubbing my shoulders..."

That's when Chris' brother reached over and rubbed her shoulders. I don't remember this girl's name, but one of her friends called her a spoiled bitch and laughed. Chris' brother didn't really rub her shoulders for too long though. He was busy trying to talk to one of the other girls.

Sadly, before any of this could go further, apparently someone called the cops on some other people at the hotel who weren't registered guests. Even though it wasn't our hotel either, we weren't the ones who had the cops called on us. The police still asked us to leave nonetheless.

A very early photo of Abby's soft soles after I began Soles of Silk.

McDonald's Fries

After senior week was over and the rest of the summer played out, college had begun. But one day I took a trip to the mall and who did I run into? Abby. It had been months since I had seen her and we struck up a long conversation. It ultimately led to Abby giving me her phone number.

One day when I didn't have class I called Abby and she told me to come over. She was babysitting her manager's kid that day and was bored. I told her I was just about to go to McDonald's before she told me to come over, so if she wanted me to, I'd pick her up something too. She did.

After I arrived at Abby's house, my first visit ever to her place, we sat in her living room watching TV. The McDonald's food sat on the coffee table and at one point a French fry fell onto the ground.

Before I could grab the fry, Abby grabbed it with her toes. She asked me if I wanted to eat it and stuck her foot to my face. Needless to say, I was dumbfounded.

I don't remember what she said at that point, but she basically told me she always knew I had a thing for feet and she thought it was so cute. With that being said, I ate the fry and then gave Abby the first of many foot massages I'd end up giving her. 

Within a month or so we were officially dating and she's the one who made me feel unashamed of having a foot fetish. She began telling her female friends, which embarrassed me at first, but then made me own it and love it even more. Hell, Abby even had some of her friends pose for me and she even let me rub their feet sometimes.

I hope you enjoyed this old stroll down memory lane for me. I wasn't always comfortable admitting my fetish to people, even though many probably suspected it. Oh, the good old days!

How about you? What were some of your early experiences like growing up with a foot fetish? Have you grown to be more comfortable with it over time?

Photos of Foot Fetish Wives & Girlfriends: Why Couples Love to Share

Abby & I shared her photos in Leg Show Magazine in 1999.

"I have also expressed my interest in watching her give a footjob to a fellow member. That would drive me crazy - in a good way..." - Cain 

Back in 1998 Abby and I were a couple. As many of you know, she is perhaps the biggest reason that became comfortable enough to become the foot fetish photographer I am today. But everything started out as a couple sharing their foot fetish photos with others. For us it was in Leg Show Magazine. It was our go to place for all things feet. In less than a year after her 18th birthday, Abby's photos were published in the Home Photos section of the Leg Show. We would go on to exchange photos with others and even met up with a fellow Maryland couple, Kim T. and her then husband, Chris. Kim had her photos in the pages of Leg Show on numerous occasions and I just adored her thick soles and pudgy toes. It truly was a place for couples into the fetish to communicate, share experiences, trade photos, and even meet.

Now here were are in 2015 and Leg Show is no more. Hell, I think 35mm film is no more. Okay, that was sarcasm, but with everything digital and everything online now, it is easier than ever for people to reach out and share their foot fetish photography with others. And although the advent of social media has been a big factor, one of the best places to share their photos and foot fetish adventures has always been Wu's Feet Links, namely on the Wu's Feet Links Forum.

For this piece I reached out to a number of couples on the forum who share their foot fetish photos with the community. Not everyone got back to me, but a number of them did. Much like Abby and myself back in 1998, the couples found below love putting their photos out there and seeing what other people think. All of these couples were excited at the prospect to take part in this column and get their photos out to an even bigger audience.

For this particular column, however, I decided to change things up a bit. Instead of the usual topic-by-topic structure, this column will go member-by-member. I want each couple to have their own chance to shine. Also, this piece will be a Q&A style entry, sort of like what you'll find on the Wu's Feet Links Interview Blog - just not focused on a single person. And with that said, onto the foot fetish couples:

Cain's wife's feet sport a nice, curvy arch with adorable toes.

 

Wu's Feet Links Forum Member: Cain

When I decided upon the topic of couples sharing their foot fetish photography, Cain was one of the first people I hit up on the Wu's Feet Links Forum. Cain is a regular on the forums and is always sharing images of his wife's size 7 feet.

Sadly, one of Cain's recent posts mentioned that he lost a bunch of his photos on PhotoBucket. I hope he gets those images back or can find a back up somewhere. Nevertheless, one thing is for sure, you can bet Cain will be posting many new photos of his wife in the future!

How long have you been a couple?

Cain: We've been a couple for about five and a half years now, but have known each other for 20 years.

How was foot fetishism brought up in the relationship?

Cain: Foot fetishism was brought up one day in conversation when she told me about a coworker who used to ask all the ladies to pose for him in slippers and asked if he could go shoe shopping with them. Come to find out, I used to work with the guy years before she did and I had heard about his slipper fetish. While laughing about me knowing him as well, I admitted having a foot fetish to her. I've always been really open with her and she has always been very accepting of me and my fetish.

What kind of foot fetish activities do you enjoy together as a couple? Or what are some of your favorite things related to the fetish? You don't have to get too private - unless you want to, of course.

Cain: My favorite foot fetish activities are footjobs and sucking her toes while having sex. I also like taking photos of her feet in various poses and sharing them with members of Wu's because the feedback is a turn on. She likes tickling and she loves getting pedicures every two weeks. She also notices feet a lot more since we've been together - whether they are sexy, ugly, nicely polished, etc.

When did you first start doing some foot fetish photography of your own? Did you begin sharing it immediately?

Cain: I first started doing it about eight years ago with the first stages of camera phones. I started sharing it immediately. She started letting me take photos about two years ago when I told her about Wu's site. I have been posting pics of her feet ever since.

Were there any reservations to the idea of sharing your photos, or were you both eager to share them online?

Cain: I don't think there were any reservations about showing her feet online as long as she remained anonymous and it was all for fun. I know I was eager to share them to see the feedback. 

How does it feel to read all the positive feedback over the photos you share?

Cain: I love reading the positive feedback. It's a major turn on. She also enjoys it because she never really liked her feet before I started giving them the attention they deserved.

One reason I hear from guys not wanting me to take photos of their wife/girlfriend for Soles of Silk is the idea that guys online might pleasure themselves to images of her. Obviously that doesn't apply to you. What are your feelings on the fact that there are some fetishists out there who might enjoy looking at your photos for that purpose?

Cain: I love the fact that guys might be pleasuring themselves to my wife's feet and I wish more would tell me. I don't offend easily at all and would love to learn more about how everyone feels about my wife's feet and what specifically they like about them. As I stated before, this is a turn on for me - sort of an exhibitionism. If someone wants to pleasure themselves or worship her feet in private, that's pretty awesome to me. She says it doesn't bother her and if she makes others happy in the process, then she is fine with it as well.

How often do you find yourselves pulling out a camera and doing foot fetish photos? Has the feedback you've gotten encouraged you to make sure you do that more often?

Cain: Feedback has definitely made me want to take more photos of her feet and I usually snap shots almost daily. If I see a certain candid pose she is doing, or I like the way her feet look in a certain way, then I snap away. Usually it's just with my iPhone and I'm like, "Don't move! I like that!" She just laughs - not at me, just with me. She loves the attention.

Do you have any plans to take your photography/videos further with maybe a site or Clips4Sale store, or do you prefer keeping things more laid back - like a hobby?

Cain: I would love to take my photos/videos further onto sites or to Clips4sale. That is definitely something I would be interested in attempting. She would most likely be up for that as long as it's anonymous.

In closing, give me some reasons why you enjoy doing foot fetish photography and sharing it online. Also, feel free to say anything else pertaining to the subject here that I might not have asked.

Cain: Well as I stated, the most important reason to do the foot fetish photography is to see what the responses are to her feet. It's sort of a foreplay to me - a turn on to get excited and helpfully lead to more foot play or some great sex. Not that I need it to have sex, but it's like the icing on the cake... No pun intended. I have also expressed my interest in watching her give a footjob to a fellow member. That would drive me crazy - in a good way, to see that. John, from Feet of Philly, has already worshipped her feet and I would love to see her go further.

IrishGuy84's wife's up turned soles look very smooth.

 

Wu's Feet Links Forum Member - IrishFootGuy84

I remember the first time I recall seeing IrishFootGuy84 post photos of his wife's feet on the Wu's Feet Links Forum in 2014. It was in a thread he titled, "My Wife's Feet in Clear Slides and Bare." I immediately thought the photos were kind of cool with the shoes they used for the first few photos. Those see-through soles were very unique and something I think I'm going to look into getting for one of my shoots one day. I hope they don't mind me stealing the idea.

While IrishFootGuy and his wife, who I am referring to as "IrishFootGal" below (sorry, didn't know what to call her), don't post a lot of images, the ones they have posted are quite nice. It's always great to see a couple share whatever they can and hopefully we will all be seeing more in the future.

How long have you been a couple? 

IrishFootGal: Nine years.

How was foot fetishism brought up in the relationship? 

IrishFootGal: He kept offering to give me foot rubs and commenting on my shoes a lot. Then he worked up to just asking if he could lick my feet. Slow build up. 

What kind of foot fetish activities do you enjoy together as a couple? Or what are some of your favorite things related to the fetish? You don't have to get too private - unless you want to, of course. 

IrishFootGuy: Foot worship and taking pictures of her feet.

IrishFootGal: Foot rubs, definitely! 

When did you first start doing some foot fetish photography of your own? Did you begin sharing it immediately? 

IrishFootGuy: About eight years ago. 

IrishFootGal: About a year after we started dating.

Were there any reservations to the idea of sharing your photos, or were you both eager to share them online? 

IrishFootGuy: I've always wanted to. 

IrishFootGal: I'm more reserved about it. I still don't want to show my face, but my feet I'm okay with now.

How does it feel to read all the positive feedback over the photos you share? 

IrishFootGal: It's nice. I'm glad we get requests from time to time. Sort of validates what he's always telling me about how much he likes my feet.

One reason I hear from guys not wanting me to take photos of their wife/girlfriend for Soles of Silk is the idea that guys online might pleasure themselves to images of her. Obviously that doesn't apply to you. What are your feelings on the fact that there are some fetishists out there who might enjoy looking at your photos for that purpose? 

IrishFootGuy: Hey, at the end of the day, her feet are for me only. People can look as much as they want, but they can't have them!

How often do you find yourselves pulling out a camera and doing foot fetish photos? Has the feedback you've gotten encouraged you to make sure you do that more often? 

IrishFootGuy: I do it all the time.

IrishFootGal: Yeah, even if it's not our nice camera, he'll snap a few with his phone if he just looks over and sees me flexing my toes or something.

Do you have any plans to take your photography/videos further with maybe a site or Clips4Sale store, or do you prefer keeping things more laid back - like a hobby? 

IrishFootGal: Nope, just for us and the Wu's Feet Links community.

In closing, give me some reasons why you enjoy doing foot fetish photography and sharing it online. Also, feel free to say anything else pertaining to the subject here that I might not have asked. 

IrishFootGuy: I'll admit, I like to show off a bit. I think my wife has the sexiest feet ever and I like to show everyone that!

IrishFootGal: It's a fun way for us to be involved. He is still a bit apprehensive about the fetish. He had some bad girlfriends in the past and some people that weren't very understanding of it. I think he likes being with likeminded people and sharing with them.

Rachel's teal toes on the dashboard. Talk about driver distraction!

 

Wu's Feet Links Forum Member: ooooOOoooo

Since I began Soles of Silk in 2004 Dave, the Wu's Feet Links Forum member that goes by ooooOOoooo, has been one of my longtime members and fans. He's always been a great guy and I've bounced many ideas off of him over the 10 years I've been online.

In recent years Dave met and married Rachel. Since that time they have been after me to meet up and have Rachel become one of the Soles of Silk sole mates. While that hasn't happened yet, perhaps 2015 will finally be the year?

When I sent the interview in to Dave he had the idea to have Rachel also take part. I loved the idea and that's ultimately how I ended up conducting the interviews with everyone involved.

How long have you been a couple? 

Dave: We have been married for three years. Been together for five. 

How was foot fetishism brought up in the relationship? 

Dave: A couple of months into us starting to date, I had a feeling that Rachel might be "the one." I took a huge risk and came clean about my foot fetish. I didn't want our relationship to be have a huge secret. 

Rachel: Agreed. He told me just a couple of months into us dating. He actually mentioned how he thought my feet were good enough to be on a website that he was a member of called Soles of Silk. I was curious to see and I tried my best to be open minded about his foot fetish. I felt that if he trusted me enough to share his deepest darkest secret, then I would be honored to share it with him. 

What kind of foot fetish activities do you enjoy together as a couple? Or what are some of your favorite things related to the fetish? You don't have to get too private - unless you want to, of course. 

Dave: Foot rubs. Lots of foot rubs. It's a win/win for both of us. I love having her feet in my hands and she really enjoys the time I spend working every little area of her feet. 

Rachel: We do all kinds of foot activities. He loves when my feet get dirty, so I'm always outside barefoot. He also has a thing for food crushing, so I have had quite a few different edible objects under my feet. Aask him about his birthday cake last year... He really enjoys when I give him a footjob, even though my skills aren't up to par just yet. And during sex, we both enjoy sucking my toes. It gives me the best orgasms I've ever had! And he also loves when I ask him to finish on my soles.

When did you first start doing some foot fetish photography of your own? Did you begin sharing it immediately? 

Dave: Funny story. Once I came clean about my foot fetish and as our relationship was growing, she would always be sending me pictures of her feet via text message. I knew that she knew she was driving me crazy. After that I was always asking to take pictures of her feet and it kinda went from there. We didn't share the pics right away, but once we agreed to start an Instagram page, we couldn't stop sharing! Currently we are no longer on Instagram, but may be rejoining in the future. 

Were there any reservations to the idea of sharing your photos, or were you both eager to share them online?  

Rachel: When he mentioned starting an Instagram page, I was all in. I was very curious to see the feedback that pictures of my feet would get. The more feedback I got, the more I wanted to post. It feels good having "foot fans." 

How does it feel to read all the positive feedback over the photos you share? 

Rachel:  I love the feedback! It's still a little crazy to me that so many people find my feet attractive, but I'll keep sharing as long as the feedback keeps cumming. 

One reason I hear from guys not wanting me to take photos of their wife/girlfriend for Soles of Silk is the idea that guys online might pleasure themselves to images of her. Obviously that doesn't apply to you. What are your feelings on the fact that there are some fetishists out there who might enjoy looking at your photos for that purpose? 

Dave: Honestly, it doesn't bother me. A little part of me thinks it's hot that other people see her feet the way I do. And knowing that they are all mine is even better. 

Rachel:  I have absolutely no problem with it at all. I mean, it's a little empowering to know that I can have that sort of impact on other guys with my feet. 

How often do you find yourselves pulling out a camera and doing foot fetish photos? Has the feedback you've gotten encouraged you to make sure you do that more often? 

Dave: If it was up to me we would be taking new pictures everyday. I wouldn't say the feedback leads to us taking more photos, but sometimes suggestions are made to help us take different kinds of pictures. 

Rachel: Sometimes I think he suggests that I go get a fresh pedicure just so he has an excuse to take new pictures of my feet.

Do you have any plans to take your photography/videos further with maybe a site or Clips4Sale store, or do you prefer keeping things more laid back - like a hobby? 

Rachel:  I don't know that either of us has the ability to start our own site. I do know a certain photographer, however, that I would love to have take pictures of me and my feet.
  
In closing, give me some reasons why you enjoy doing foot fetish photography and sharing it online. Also, feel free to say anything else pertaining to the subject here that I might not have asked. 

Dave: I love sharing Rachel's photos because I love the interaction that it brings with the rest of the foot fetish community. I remember the first time I ever saw her feet - French pedicure in flip flops. I knew at that moment that I really wanted to see her soles and take pictures of her feet. My dream has come true! 

Rachel: I really enjoy seeing pictures of my feet online because I get to act like a model! I mean what girl doesn't want to be a model, right? Plus since I've learned about this fetish and how much is really involved with it - it's fun to try and do my part. It's just another way for us to enjoy my feet. I know it really makes him happy to take the photos and that makes me happy. Also, I'm glad that a lot of you like to see my feet. It's been a real treat to share my bare feet!

Little Latina Feet wears a size 3.5 - 4... I'll say that name surely fits her!

 

Wu's Feet Links Forum Member - OscarTheMonkey

Do you like Latina women? If so, OscarTheMonkey's wife, Little Latina, is someone you need to check out. Do you like little feet? Well, they don't come much smaller than Little Latina's size 3.5 - 4 feet. I know! They're so tiny!

Perhaps the best thing about this couple has been their longevity on the Wu's Feet Links Forum. They have been posting images of Little Latina's feet for longer than many sites have been online. I was able to find images of her small feet dating all the way back to 2007 on the forums. So if you're like me and love these feet, you owe it to yourself to go take a look at all those old threads!

How long have you been a couple? 

Oscar & Little Latina: 15 years.

How was foot fetishism brought up in the relationship? 
Oscar: We don’t remember, but I did have her shoes off on the first date.

What kind of foot fetish activities do you enjoy together as a couple? Or what are some of your favorite things related to the fetish? You don't have to get too private - unless you want to, of course. 

Oscar: Taking pictures for the site, feet on face handjobs and blowjobs, tease and denial withe her feet, bondage, and tickling.

Little Latina: I like getting my feet massaged regularly and enjoy getting a pedicure every other week.

When did you first start doing some foot fetish photography of your own? Did you begin sharing it immediately? 

Oscar: We specifically started after seeing others do it on Wu’s Feet Links, about seven years after we got married.

Were there any reservations to the idea of sharing your photos, or were you both eager to share them online? 

Oscar: I love sharing them online and could care less if anyone knows it’s us.

Little Latina: I don’t want anyone who knows me to figure out who I am.

How does it feel to read all the positive feedback over the photos you share? 

Oscar: She loves it, but pretends to be indifferent.

Little Latina: I don’t care, but want my husband to be happy.

One reason I hear from guys not wanting me to take photos of their wife/girlfriend for Soles of Silk is the idea that guys online might pleasure themselves to images of her. Obviously that doesn't apply to you. What are your feelings on the fact that there are some fetishists out there who might enjoy looking at your photos for that purpose? 

Oscar: I love the fact that we are involved in a large group effort of everyone trying to turn everyone else on.

How often do you find yourselves pulling out a camera and doing foot fetish photos? Has the feedback you've gotten encouraged you to make sure you do that more often? 

Oscar: Really not as often as I'd like. We end up being busy, but we also mainly take pictures just for Wu's. I think posting weekly would get old for other forum members.

Do you have any plans to take your photography/videos further with maybe a site or Clips4Sale store, or do you prefer keeping things more laid back - like a hobby? 

Oscar: It's hobby only.

In closing, give me some reasons why you enjoy doing foot fetish photography and sharing it online. Also, feel free to say anything else pertaining to the subject here that I might not have asked. 

Oscar: I think it's something fun and sexy that makes us horny. I'd like to do more "boudoir" shots of her for myself. Occasionally we make video and would like to do more of that.

Riscaf013's wife, Foot Queen, showing her beautiful feet on the bed.

 

Wu's Feet Links Forum Member - Riscaf013

When I reached out to Riscaf013 about taking part in this column we got crossed up a bit. It looks like Riscaf had to make a second account on the Wu's Feet Links Forum at some point, but luckily we touched base and I was able to get him and his wife to talk to us about foot fetishism and sharing their photos.

From what it looks like, Riscaf hasn't shared a lot of photos on the forums as of yet. The ones he has shared, however, are quite nice. His wife has a nice arch and who doesn't love those bright green toes up there?

It was neat to include a couple who is still a little more fresh to sharing their photos. I hope that they continue to be a part of the Wu's Feet Links community moving forward. It's always nice to see cute feet like these shared on a regular basis.

How long have you been a couple? 

Riscaf: We have been together for almost six years.

How was foot fetishism brought up in the relationship? 

Riscaf: I have always had a foot fetish since I could remember and it was one of the things I brought up when we first started dating.

Foot Queen: He was pretty upfront about it. He said he had be burned in the past by girls and was made to felt like a weirdo. I was taken aback about it at first, but once I educated myself about it, I embraced it fully. 

What kind of foot fetish activities do you enjoy together as a couple? Or what are some of your favorite things related to the fetish? You don't have to get too private - unless you want to, of course. 

Riscaf: I love giving her foot rubs, kissing her feet, sucking her toes, and licking her arches.

Foot Queen: I love when he rubs my feet. He really likes it when I demand him to rub them and to worship my feet. I love how turned on he gets about it.

When did you first start doing some foot fetish photography of your own? Did you begin sharing it immediately? 

Riscaf: To be honest, I decided to post one picture of her on Wu’s Feet Links and surprise her with it. I knew her feet were sexy and I want to share them and see what other people thought of her feet. 

Foot Queen: At first I was nervous. I am a bit modest, but once I saw the feedback, I was like, "Wow!"

Were there any reservations to the idea of sharing your photos, or were you both eager to share them online? 

Riscaf: I was eager to share.

Foot Queen: I had some reservation. If he did not post the first one and surprise me I don’t think I would have done it. Now that it's done, I enjoy it. 

How does it feel to read all the positive feedback over the photos you share? 

Riscaf: I love it. It's kind of a turn on to see all the comments about the feet I am privileged to serve.

Foot Queen: I like seeing the comments and would like to thank everybody who has commented on the photos.

One reason I hear from guys not wanting me to take photos of their wife/girlfriend for Soles of Silk is the idea that guys online might pleasure themselves to images of her. Obviously that doesn't apply to you. What are your feelings on the fact that there are some fetishists out there who might enjoy looking at your photos for that purpose? 

Riscaf: I dig it. I think it’s hot.

Foot Queen: Well, whatever floats your boat. Just to let you know, however, only one man gets to serve these feet and he does an amazing job.

How often do you find yourselves pulling out a camera and doing foot fetish photos? Has the feedback you've gotten encouraged you to make sure you do that more often? 

Riscaf: We do it when the mood strikes us right.

Foot Queen: It's all him. I just go along for the ride, but seeing the feedback is fun.

Do you have any plans to take your photography/videos further with maybe a site or Clips4Sale store, or do you prefer keeping things more laid back - like a hobby? 

Riscaf: No pictures is all we plan on doing. 

Foot Queen: Yeah, just pictures. I don’t see us doing anything more.

In closing, give me some reasons why you enjoy doing foot fetish photography and sharing it online. Also, feel free to say anything else pertaining to the subject here that I might not have asked. 

Riscaf: A few reasons. I like sharing how sexy my wife’s feet are. It’s a turn on. Also, I like hearing some of the ideas other people give us.

Foot Queen: I like seeing how turned on my husband gets from it. Also I know in the past my husband was made to feel bad about his fetish by women who do not understand this fetish. So I'm happy to show other men out there, there are women who will embrace it full force and enjoy having their feet attended to.

If you enjoy these couple's photos, be sure to check out more from each and every one of them on the Wu's Feet Links Forums. There you will also find countless other couples who also share their photography with the rest of the foot fetish community. 

I thank everyone for taking part. I, like you, loved sharing photos of my significant other when I first started out. While I went on to start Soles of Silk, I treasure all those moments where it was just Abby and I showing off her little Puerto Rican feet for all the Leg Show readers. I'm just glad she still shows them off to me today and is still someone I consider a dear friend.

Abby first posed for me in 1998 when we dated. Now, 16 years later she still does.