Monday, August 8, 2005

Who's on Top? (Archive)

The column found below was published in August 2005 on Wu's Feetlinks. With Wu's passing in 2014, I have decided to preserve these columns here on the all new Wu's Feetlinks Columns Blog as new columnists carry on with the new ones. Please note: Website URLs, e-mail addresses, and mailing addresses found within these republished blogs may no longer be valid.

Patrick, Editor








This month I have some news for all you unfulfilled foot fetish fans that long to lick, suck, sniff, worship, and generally sublimate yourself before a foot queen! That elusive and subtle fact that will take you to the warm, salty nirvana of the sweaty sole; The key to unlocking your chance to kneel before a woman, and for that woman to truly enjoy your absolute devotion to her peds; the final missing piece of your search for the finest in foot fulfillment! That simple but elusive fact is that you have to on top, before you can be on the bottom!

It is basic evolutionary fact that the female of every species seeks a mate that would further their chances of promulgating their kind! A strong viral male that has the ability to stand independently of a woman, and that can lead a productive and positive life! This is not all locked up in genetics or physical prowess. It is an attitude and confidence that a male can exude that is among the most attractive of traits for the female. I enjoy a confident man, but he cannot be cocky or egotistical. He must be comfortable in his own skin, know where he is going, and accept what he want out of life! This is true for his career, his tastes, and even his sexuality. As dichotomous as this sounds, this is the kind of man that I want to dominate and accept worship from in all forms.

So, you may be asking at this point: How do I be so confident and dominant while desiring to be the one who provides worship and service? These items are not mutually exclusive, but simply traits on the same spectrum. The usual mistake made by the majority of men is that they think that romanticism, devotion, and even groveling will land them a mate. The truth is if we really believe that you are a helpless, sniveling servant, we will find ourselves attracted to someone else. I would venture there is an experience in every man's life where he devoted himself to a woman so fully, that he actually lost most of who he was as a person. In the end, he was left to wonder why the woman lost interest and left him. Women may seem like they measure what they can get out of a relationship in order to assess their own desire for a man, but in reality it is that independence and confidence that reassures us that they can function successfully in the world. 

This translates so cleanly to the bedroom that it is often overlooked by most people. I have said it before, and I will repeat it here. If you take your time to get to know a woman, and take your time to open up regarding your desires, your chances of having her be open to them multiply by an incredible amount. In other words, if I want to please you as my mate, I will do most anything. Therefore, establishing a relationship is the key to having your desires to worship, or to be dominated, fulfilled by a woman. Of course, you can always go to a professional, but that is usually lacking in its' ability to fulfill your desires. It is only one step closer to your fantasy, and the experience is only an acting out of the vision in your head. Domination and worship are about the feelings as much as the actions and for this to truly be fulfilled one needs a real relationship. This is where the Domination/BD/SM crowds have gotten it right most of the time. They understand the difference between emotional fulfillment of the fantasy, and the need to function in everyday life. So, the foot fetishist must find the same balance.

Be strong and confident to find a mate, take the time to establish a relationship, make sure that relationship is one that has good communication, and then take the chance to communicate your desires to her. Just remember every man's sexual desire is full of perversions, but the difference between it being fun, adventurous sexual play and a disgusting act is locked in how the woman feels about the man! Stunt cock was not always stunt cock! He had to work his way into my heart mind. I now understand what turns him on about my feet, what scenarios drive his desire, and even his favorite view or position of my foot! I have the power to make him cum with just my feet, and how to use my feet to make him cum during sex regardless of his desire! 

The lesson is about transforming your desire into the kind of sexual activity that empowers her! It will make her feel womanly, attractive, and validating for her sexuality. Again, this is done between the ears a great deal more than between the legs. However, once between the legs is an actual activity, your wildest fantasy will not only be fulfilled, but exceeded by the power of the experience!

Hope this helps!

Sunday, May 8, 2005

MILF Feet (Archive)

The column found below was published in May 2005 on Wu's Feetlinks. With Wu's passing in 2014, I have decided to preserve these columns here on the all new Wu's Feetlinks Columns Blog as new columnists carry on with the new ones. Please note: Website URLs, e-mail addresses, and mailing addresses found within these republished blogs may no longer be valid.

Patrick, Editor








The hottest trend in the world of pornography appears to be MILF. When I first heard this I was unsure of what it meant, but for those that boarder on the clueless, like myself, it stands for "Mothers I Would Like to Fuck". I spoke with my partner about this phenomenon, and he shared a number of observations with me! Apparently, just about every male has had the experience of a mother he found attractive growing up! This explains the appeal of MILF porn in that it taps into the current fantasy world of young males, and it rekindles the fantasies of the adult males as they recall their younger days of unstoppable sexual fervor! I have noticed a more obvious foot fetish acceptance in a number of these pornographic films, and I was, of course, reviewing these films as research only! However, this is not a film review, but an article on why I have stated to many foot fetish fans why women over 30 are better candidates for the foot fetishist!

There are a number of reasons why the MILF women make good candidates for foot fetish activity. The first is that most mothers, or women of mothering age, have learned to be more comfortable with their bodies. We all see our limitations and imperfections more easily than the men and women that are attracted to us, but after childbirth, aging, and experience, we are more comfortable with ourselves. The second is that we are more comfortable with the sexual drive of men. Since we are less visual, we take time to grow comfortable with the fact that we do not have to be perfect in order to be looked at by men. We also begin to understand the multiple different fetishes and tastes of men without feeling threatened or insecure by their needs. Third, our sexual drive physically peaks, and this allows us to overcome many inhibitions due to sheer physical desire. Let's face it, if the Good Lord had placed women and men at their physical and sexual peaks at the same time, we would have populated many a world over by now! Finally, women of this age range tend to be more financially secure than younger women. This is important because a good manicure and pedicure can run anywhere from $45 to $125 depending on where one chooses to be pampered that day. This is not easy to come by money for the financially struggling student, or the just starting a career woman. The point is that the MILF women are the perfect physical, mental, and emotional match for the foot fetishist!

A recent experience drives this point home like no other! I had a chance to attend the afternoon musical of some grade school relatives. This event was sparsely attended by the parents and relatives due to the timing of the event on a weekday, but was it a parade of foot fun! The MILF came in wearing every style of footwear known to drive you foot fans over the edge! Sandals, heels, flats, flip-flops, work pumps, and even hot sweaty gym shoes. I was able to casually notice the primped and pedicured versus the plain but pretty versus the callused and neglected! There were slightly dirty feet, bright toes, chipped polish, French, completely bare. I was, of course, freshly painted, soft, and clean, in a pair of white thong sandals with a 3" heel. A small selection of men were scattered throughout the crowd, but I was sure that more than one gentleman was engrossed in the foot show! They were as easy to spot as usual as they steal glances at the feet of the women around them, and one forty-ish father spent a great deal of time watching my sandal dance and slap at my soft pink sole. Once again the mundane can be erotic if only one is to pay attention.

As I "reviewed" a recent MILF film, I recalled the 'innocent' flirtation of the 18 year-old boy that often lived next door to me at my first house. He was well-built, sandy brown hair, brown eyes, and waiting to leave for the armed services. He would offer assistance with yard work, bringing in the groceries, moving furniture, and sometimes just talking. I would occasionally fantasize about seducing this young man, but certainly did not want to cause a neighborhood scandal. I was washing my car one afternoon when my friend came over to talk, and I often wear comfortable, yet revealing, attire around the house. That day my shorts were hip hugging thin pink cotton, and my t-shirt was a white clingy tank top. He sat on the ground chatting with me as I suds up the car, and this was certainly not as erotic as some teen movie, but not exactly innocent either. I noticed that he was having a difficult time keeping his eyes off of my wet sudsy feet, and his shorts appeared to need constant adjusting! At one point I grew a little wicked, and I purposely bent over the hood directly at him. My calves strained as I push up on my toes to reach over the hood, and I could feel my shorts pulling tight across my round cheeks. My friend grabbed his member, thinking that I could not see him, but my side mirror gave me a full view of him. He actually appeared to tug 2-3 times as if trying to jerk through his shorts, and I was afraid that I would soon make my excitement apparent through my shorts as well! I leaned over that extra inch of two, going up onto one foot allowing my left foot to extend back toward him. My bare soapy sole exposed for his view, and again he attempted to pull on his frustrated member. I began to feel self-conscious, as my nipples were so hard that it was impossible not to notice them through my damp filmy T-Shirt, and I certainly was getting to that excited point myself where judgment tends to give way to lust. 

The rest of the carwash was a more innocent rinse and dry, but my body being somewhat on display kept tensions noticeable. I found myself lingering on the corners of the car to push my hips against anything hard! My lusty young friend was called home at one point, and I went into the house. Three quick rubs had me over the edge! 

I tend not to think of myself as a MILF, but I guess it is not a bad thing! Maybe taking on a young man or two to play Mrs. Robinson would be a fun excursion! Oh My I Must Be A MILF, I know who Mrs. Robinson is! Oh well! So, if I were to offer a piece of advice, it would be this: Don't fret at those family obligations for graduations, musicals, and spring events. Keep your eye out for the feet of the MILF as they are out there waiting for a man to pay attention to them.

Tuesday, February 8, 2005

Deep in My Sole (Archive)

The column found below was published in February 2005 on Wu's Feetlinks. With Wu's passing in 2014, I have decided to preserve these columns here on the all new Wu's Feetlinks Columns Blog as new columnists carry on with the new ones. Please note: Website URLs, e-mail addresses, and mailing addresses found within these republished blogs may no longer be valid.

Patrick, Editor








What is it about the sole of the foot that captivates the imaginations and loins of so many people? This is the question that I ponder this month, and the most intriguing moment occurred the other day that lead to this question. I will first describe the event followed by my views on the sole!

I was out for dinner the weekend prior to Valentine's Day with a number of couples, and as usual I dressed well. My longer skirt might have disappointed my partner's love for my legs, and it may have inhibited my tendency to let a little more show after a cocktail or two! However, I wore an eye-catching pair of sheer off black seamed stockings. The kind that let the just the seam run down the back of the leg, over the heel, and across the sole. No reinforcements to impede the view of my sole, to be to the point. The heels that I chose for the evening were a black leather pump with a 4" heel, and you cannot under estimate how fun it is to wear sexy hosiery and lingerie.

After dinner, a few couple adjourned to the bar, and this is where the evening began to get interesting! I first sat at an elevated bar table with multiple stools around it. This allows you to sit high up with rungs to place your feet on since they do not touch the floor. In pumps and skirts, this gives a woman two choice: Sit with legs together, and heel hooked over a rung; or Sit up straight with your legs crossed, and one heel hooked over a rung. Either way, it allows a woman to play with her heels a great deal! You can dangle a lot with your legs crossed. You can "pop" your heels out of the pumps a lot with your legs together. I first sat cross-legged to put on usual dangle show! It is fun to see how many people look at your feet and heels as they pass by, or how distracted someone is at a table near-by! However, I switched at one point to sit forward with both heels on the rungs of the stool, and I began to let my heels pop off as I pressed my toes down on the rung. I tend to bounce my legs a little, and I could almost hear to soft popping off and slapping of the sole of the heel as I did this. A good friend of mine tapped me on the arm, and she said "There is a man at the bar staring at your feet!" 

I innocently replied, "Why do you think that?"

My friend said, "I swear he hasn't looked up from beneath your stool in like 10 minutes!"

I was able to use the amble mirrors about the bar to observe this for myself without any making it obvious. I whispered to my friend, "Let's go to the ladies room, and when we get back, let's switch seats to see what he does." My friend being the closet nymph that she is was up for my little game. Upon our switch, my handsome admirer did not immediately move, yet he did look somewhat disappointed. "Watch this!" I told my friend. I let my pumps fall to the floor, and placed my stocking feet on the stool rung. It took about two seconds before my new voyeuristic friend re-positioned himself at a bar table just behind me! The show that I put on was an extensive sole ballet of crunching and flexing that would have made for great video! After about 10 minutes, the man slipped up to the bar, paid his tab, and left. A few moments later a full round of drinks appears at the table, and the waitress just said "A man paid for these, and asked me to bring them over after he left. He only asked me to tell you 'Thank You!'" The table was puzzled, but my girlfriend and I laughed and giggled over the situation. Yes we did share it with the table, as they all the couples were open enough to understand.

Many foot lovers are sole lovers! Is it that the sole is so hard to see? It is like a secret, a rare site, or a hard to find experience. The voyeuristic nature of men ingrains strong visual images of their exact interest or desire, and rarely in a "normal" sexual encounter are these images available to fulfill that fantasy. Women wonder why dressing up seem to make men so horny, but I truly believe that so many common fantasies exist around events and evening wear that it is a rare opportunity for them. My sex life off the camera has much less hosiery due to the fact that we have so much of it on camera, yet we have incredible sex when we I wear it!

Back to the sole! Men love the sole wrinkled, stretched, arched, flexed, and pointed! Some love them soft pink and pampered, yet some want them hard, worn, and yellow with think skin. Either way, the sole may be harder to touch and see than any other part of a woman's body. Of course, is it a coincidence that man sexual positions make the sole of the foot more visible and accessible than at any other time? The use of the feet in sex cannot be understated, and the sole lover is a prime candidate! I rub my lovers face and chest during sex with my soles! I point and show them in his face. We even have a position for soles sex! This is a doggy-style position, but with my legs together! I sit way back on my heels, and I this allows my partner to rub his cock on my soles, fuck my arches, and then slide right inside me! As he pumps and grinds in me, his balls can bump and rub across my soles. This sends him over the edge very quickly! 

In the end, the visual stimulation of the forbidden fruit of the soles presents a voyeuristic picture, but the use of that picture to fulfill fantasies can lead to incredible bedroom passion! Don't forget your soles ladies! Your man certainly doesn't!